Arreh bhai ladke ladki ki kundali mili ya nahi? Chatees mai se kitne gun mile? Ye rishta to sakshaat shiv shakti ka hai, kundali itne ache se mili . . . these are some among the many questions that hinder our paths to the marriage. Relatives who have been long lost will come before the marriage tormenting you with these absolutely mind-blowing questions. But is kundli the only necessity?
Here listed are some things that are far more important than a kundali.
- Your future together
One of you may be a travel freak whereas other one wants to settle and raise an empire. It’s better if you find someone with similar future taste or at least a common ground. This may save many arguments in the future.
- Let’s partyyy
On one hand you are ready for a saturday pub disco life and your partner has a strict 10 pm deadline to sleep! God! May your stars help you then.
- Kids planning
- Binding chemistry
The bond between you two, be it physical or emotional, is what need in a rock solid marriage. You need to get connected with each other and that could happen only by spending time with each other. Kundali has got nothing to do with it.
- All comes down to food
How awesome it would be if you both have similar taste buds! If you both have different tastes, how will you both go on a dinner date and enjoy! Kundali surely doesn’t think about it.
- Money really matters
You have to figure out this matter before anything else. Jodis are made in heaven but we have to survive in this planet earth and for that we need money. So keep doing kundali match later, keep your priorities straight!
- Major change
Your shift from your home to his. This is something that every girl has to do and which is written in the traditional customs. You have to start a new life with him and so you need to know the lifestyle of the person you gonna start living with.
- Being different is another thing
It is good to have a unique identity but there has to a be a common ground between you two. You cannot always come up with different ideas and think it will work. The world works on commitment my friend and for that you have to be convinced by your decisions together.
- It is the person who is important
There will be mummy, papa, sasumaa, sasurji, dada, dadi and oh so many relatives with oh so many opinions. But the most important opinion that matters is of your man! Listen to other people, but do what pleases your mister.
- Priorities should be the thumb rule
People will have opinions to give. Prioritize between family, friends, kids, work, money etc for a successful marriage. For that I don’t think kundali can help much.
- The most most important
LOVE! Love is what will keep your relation going. You need to have love amongst each other to go through the ups and downs of your marriage life. Love will bind your relation intact!